Capacity to Change

Let me know if my experience rings true for you.

I believed I was a product of my environment, my upbringing, and my social class. I believed my options were limited, within certain pre-ordained boundaries.

As a result, the thought of doing anything differently took my breath away, gave me sweats, and made it difficult to think clearly.

Who was I to believe I deserved more?

Isn’t that belief egotistical? Am I becoming a snob, disrespecting my upbringing?

And I had evidence that the circumstances I was in (alcoholic husband, no money, isolated, and feeling like a failure). Everyone I knew were in similar situations.

What I didn’t realize then was that the state I was in, that of not-good enough, drew like-minded people to me. Let’s face it, I would not have known how to even communicate with someone on the path of healing and growth.

So, how could I even have the audacity to expect more from my life? Who was I to dream?

And, beyond that, if I made a move outside this life I knew, who was I to even know how to navigate anything different?

But then I did, and so can you.

For me, it was pushing myself into a divorce, going on welfare, and not accepting the roach-infested life I brought my daughter into as being OK for her.

I dreamed of a job worth going to, and withing 3 months I had it.

I dreamed of a home that was mine, and within 2 years I had it.

I dreamed of a life where I had could be taken seriously and be a part of something bigger. Within 3 years I had it.

Small steps and learning to believe I was worthy of change.

Success breeds success and as my self-esteem got stronger, my previous relationships just disappeared. I began to attract different people. I began to find myself with better choices. I was able to stretch my vision of who I am and what I want beyond anything I had dreamed of before.

You see, I learned about m values, about my boundaries, and about leading from my heart. I began making different choices, even if they frightened me a little bit. By making different choices, I experienced different results. It’s called the Universal Law of Cause and Effect. This is simply how that law attraction manifests on a physical level.

Manifestation is not some magical thing but is a direct result of the choices you make each and every moment of your life.

You too have the capacity to change your circumstances. You have that ability to acknowledge it’s a little frightening to do something differently and yet choose to do it anyway. You can choose to define your life and step into it with purpose.

Allow yourself to feel worthy of your dream. You don’t have to do this alone. Allow yourself to have someone at your side guiding you through the barriers that could hold you back. Someone who has done it and is willing to go through it with you.

It takes intentionally taking hold of your life.

Let’s talk and see if I am that someone for you. Schedule our discovery meeting today.

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